Mistakes are opportunities to learn. Mistakes are not judged by my good or bad intentions for they are by nature attempts of misunderstanding. When I intend to love and don’t there is one of two causes from which my intention does little to separate responsibility. Either I wanted to love and did not yet possess the alignment with God’s will in doing so instead offering them my emotional, carnal expectation or judgment or I do not know God’s Love and therefore cannot offer it.

When we approach interactions with new people the chance to make these mistakes are inevitably present. Upon making the mistake we have the chance at correction. Not making that correction at first opportunity identifies this mistake as true carnal intention, no longer just misunderstanding. Love being the commanded objective of God’s Will we have then consciously or unconsciously departed from that perfect will entering into our own objectives and outcomes.

When two Christians come together to create union as one before God it must be done in clarity of Love being the only objective. Both parties cannot go into the ordained union with reliance upon making mistakes over and again. They must have a shared commitment before God to eschew the chance to make mistakes as they no longer have that coverage from accountability as they KNOW that God’s Will is ALWAYS the guiding objective. When one parties outside of commitment tells the other they do not love them and leaves there never was that shared commitment.

Having ventured into this obvious misalignment with God’s Will, either of the people must make a declaration of repentance and if there is shared value in continuing the relationship it must be based upon REAL and HONEST Commitment to right the relationship to one of Godliness in Commitment. If the other party disagrees, now there being clearly no more Mistakes available the relationship must be ceased if there is no agreement to COMMIT.

All of our relationships when considering unequal yoking as outcome must face this reality. God is not asking us to marry the children of disobedience but has commanded us to marry those of consistent faith and alignment with His Will. Proceeding where commitment or lack of relationship with God is present or available is in itself disobedient. Do we truly believe that now we are born of the seed of Heaven no longer stuck in Adam’s Sin having been delivered by redemption in Christ Jesus that we are FREE from God’s Commands regarding the commitments we make to each other?

Obvious.